The Power of Intention

“The power of intention is the power to manifest, to create, to live a life of unlimited abundance, and to attract into your life the right people at the right moments”. – Wayne Dyer.

intentional horseWhen consciously set, intentions provide a powerful anchor that helps us to remember who we are, our goals & desires, and what’s most important to us. They connect us to our authentic selves and act as a guiding force for our thoughts and actions. Setting intentions and committing to them are powerful tools for self-growth, positive change, and joyful, purposeful living.

Are you truly aligned with your intention?  Often we “think” we have set an intention but it is really a “should.”  Or it may be something we think we want to cultivate, but actually have mixed feelings about.  Thinking about something we want is not the same as setting an intention. Manifesting intention is about more than just thinking, it requires a purposeful integration of mind, body, and spirit.

Because horses tune into congruence, or lack thereof, they are excellent barometers of true intention. Horses can let us know whether what we say we want is actually aligned with our deeper self and matches what we are doing.
DSC02713Joan* got to experience this first hand when she came to Stand InBalance to work on leaving an unhealthy work environment and finding a new job. Despite being “certain” that moving forward in her career and leaving her current organization was what she wanted, Joan wasn’t having any luck finding a new job.  In her second session with the horses, Joan created an area that represented what she wanted in a new position. She built and identified a number of elements such as a good salary, creativity, support, positive peers, challenging projects, etc.
However, when tasked with moving her horse into the “new job” he refused to enter the space.  She tried pulling, pushing, and coaxing all to no avail.  Joan became increasingly frustrated — clearly the horse was picking up some way she was not truly aligned with her stated Intentionintention.
Exploration revealed that deep inside Joan had a lot of “shoulds” – things that she should be capable of, things she should like or want, etc. but lacked a clear, authentic intention. The horse’s refusal to move into something that wasn’t truly aligned for Joan pushed her to embark on the challenge of connecting with and empowering her authentic self.  It wasn’t easy, but after several weeks Joan was able to own that what she wanted most was to be a mother and that career was really secondary to her.  This clarification of her true intention created a change in her energy and the positions she was interviewing for.  A couple months later, she landed a new job with a higher salary and more flexibility than she ever imagined, allowing her to focus more on her true desire to be a mother.

Follow the steps below to set your own Intention(s):
#1:  Clear your mind – It’s normal for our heads to be filled with lots of busy thoughts.  LuShakesIt’s important to allow some time to clear out these thoughts in order to connect with the deeper, more real desires that lay beneath the chatter.  Take 5-15 mins. (or as much time as you need!) to allow these thoughts to be heard. Stream of consciousness journaling is a good way to clear; try setting a timer & simply writing down whatever comes to mind until the timer rings.  Meditation is another excellent option for clearing the mind.  If you’re feeling especially restless, physical activity is an a great way to shake off excess energy and get your brain to a place of quiet – go for a hike, run, do yoga or try Kundalini breathing exercises.

#2:  Sit still & check in – Now that you’ve quieted your mind and cleared some internal space sit still for a few minutes and check in with yourself.  horse sitting stillWhat do you notice about yourself?  How are you doing – Right now? Lately? Overall in your life?  Is there anything you’d like to change?  What would you like more of in your life? What do you like about the way it is now? Allow your authentic desires to surface and try not to judge them. Whatever you come up with is correct – there is no right or wrong way to feel.

#3:  Form your intention –  What do you ultimately want to manifest?  It could be a single word – love, joy, freedom, peace, abundance, fearlessness, trust.  It could be a more specific action, such as: be more honest, let go of perfection, or forgive myself when I make mistakes.  Your intention may be very obvious to you and come to you right away or it may some time to emerge. Whatever it is, it should resonate with you on a deep, gut level.

#4:  Clarify & crystallize it – A clear intention will be easier to connect to as you move through your daily life and will support you in your efforts moving forward.  A strong intention is in the affirmative:  “I am open & receptive to all good & positivity” rather than “I don’t want to be negative & focus on bad stuff”.   thinkingWhen setting your intention avoid using the word “want” as this distracts from the root intention and may result in more “wanting”.  Instead, set your intention as if you already ARE or HAVE what it is you desire: “I am abundant” rather than “I want abundance”, “I let go of the past” rather than “I want to let go of the past.”  Lastly, although you want the intention to be very specific to what you would like to call forward in your life, allow it to be broad enough that you are not limiting any possibilities.  Rather than choosing a specific goal “I am a successful writer”, get to the source of what that goal will bring forth and create the intention for that “I am a success”.  For ex: if you have a very specific desire: “I want to buy a house” think about how accomplishing this goal will serve you or what it bring to you – Security? Belonging? Then, set your intention for the thing which you desire ultimately rather than the specific situation you think will bring that thing to you, for ex: “I am safe and secure”.   Now that you have your intention, repeat it to yourself – is it clear? Do you understand it?  Is it succinct & easy for you to remember? Is it positive?

FICOMhorse-1381727#5:  Use it!  Write your intention(s) down or commit them to memory!  It is imperative that you REMEMBER your intention so that you can call upon it during times of stress or confusion.  Remind yourself of your intention several times a day – It could be once in the morning & once at night or it could be every five minutes.  The more you check in and connect with your intention, the more powerful it will be and the stronger you will become at sticking to it and gaining control over your own thoughts & actions.  Release your expectations about the future and put your focus on your present actions, keeping them in line with your intention and open to the possibility of unchartered outcomes.

#6:  Repeat, adjust as needed – Just as we are forever growing and evolving, so are our intentions!  Check back in with yourself often – starting this process all over again to see if things have shifted & changed for you. You may want to set a new intention or adjust the one you already have or maybe you want to keep going on the path you’ve set.  Whatever you decide to do, let your intentions be your guide!

*all names and identifying information have been changed.

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