How to find your INNER WISDOM and let it be your guide in 5 steps.

be wise be happyWhat is Inner Wisdom? Within each of us is an inherent knowing that, if we allow it, will guide us to our own happiness. The trouble is, this inner knowing, wisdom, or intuition, is often covered up by louder interjections and contributions from the outside world, combined with inner self-talk, that masquerades as our wisdom. Don’t be fooled! Read on to learn how to find and follow your INNER WISDOM to a place of happiness, peace & authentic confidence!

Step 1: Be still & listen within – let go of outside influences! How can you possibly hear your inner wisdom if there is too much noise coming at you from all […]

How to Say what you mean and Mean what you say – Tips for clear communication.

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” ― George Bernard Shaw

discussion between horsesWe all know how important communication is, but despite being aware of this fact, good communication can be hard to come by. For many, communicating needs and feelings is uncomfortable or even scary depending on the circumstances. Others may think that they are communicating clearly but find that they aren’t getting the results they should with clear communication. Sometimes emotion gets in the way and we forget how to communicate entirely!  Strong, clear, engaging communication not only strengthens relationships and helps create more harmony, it allows us, the communicators, to feel heard. A sense of freedom and openness comes with effective communicating, leading to an overall sense of greater satisfaction, confidence and joy.

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Intentional Compassion in the Workplace

Studies show that compassion in the workplace has numerous benefits, among them are employee retention, decreased stress and improved health. Any endeavor to create change starts with setting a clear intention.  Setting the intention to bring compassion into the workplace and setting the tone for a compassionate environment (cheerful greetings, thoughtful acts) is the first step.  The second is helping people become aware of how they respond to stress and threat in social and work situations.  The Strengths Deployment Inventory is a powerful tool that we use to help people understand the motives and values that drive their own and others behavior, which in turn increases compassion.  This understanding combined with interactive training, enables individuals to lead with clarity and empathy, build stronger teams, and more effectively navigate conflict.  

 

Another method for […]

The Power of Intention

“The power of intention is the power to manifest, to create, to live a life of unlimited abundance, and to attract into your life the right people at the right moments”. – Wayne Dyer.

intentional horseWhen consciously set, intentions provide a powerful anchor that helps us to remember who we are, our goals & desires, and what’s most important to us. They connect us to our authentic selves and act as a guiding force for our thoughts and actions. Setting intentions and committing to them are powerful tools for self-growth, positive change, and joyful, purposeful living.

Are you truly aligned with your intention?  Often we “think” we have set an intention but it is really a “should.”  Or it may be something we think we want to cultivate, but actually have […]

How horses can teach us compassion

Similar to human relationships, successful relating with horses requires compassion, patience, kindness, and clarity. Not only can we increase our capacity for compassion by caring for them, we can develop a deeper, more loving connection with ourselves through their love and acceptance of us. Tom’s* experience is a moving reminder of their powerful ability to help us heal.  As soon as Tom* walked into the round pen, the light bay horse moved away. Each time Tom took a step towards him, the bay pinned back his ears and tossed his head — “get away, I don’t trust you, don’t touch me!”  As a veteran with PTSD, Tom came to Stand InBalance because he had been struggling to re-connect with his family.  He was torn between wanting to find a way to break free from his self-imposed guilt and isolation and the strong belief that he was morally bad and deserved the physical and emotional wounds he carried. Read More